The Numerology of 3 Little Words: I Love You!

I Love You!

Do you say these words enough? Do you say them too much? Do you say them at all? According to marriage expert, Alisa Bowman,  a sincere verbal expression of love at key times of the day can really have a positive impact on your “love connection.”

Couples who say “I Love You” on a regular basis report feeling closer than those who don’t.  For maximum impact, she recommends saying it three times a day:

  • In the morning before you go your separate ways
  • In the evening when you reunite
  • At night before you go to sleep (& never go to sleep mad at each other)

Those moments set a tone of sincerity that will cover your time apart, Saying, “I love you,” too much can lessen the impact. Not enough can weaken your bond.

Let’s examine the numbers in these 3 little words and see how it relates to love itself and what we think of when we hear these words:

The words “I Love You” comes to 43/7

The number 43 is the “true friend” number. It is the number of affection and toleration — tolerant of the whims, divinities and foibles of others — which is not only needed in a love relationship, but is required.  43 is a number of perfection and this number as the true friend number can endure many tests. The power of this number extends to a type of energy which it possesses, and which can be transferred to the energy fields of others — such as fulfillment.  The number 43  is the congratulatory number, and “congratulations” is exactly what people say to couples when they get married or celebrate some wonderful milestone in their relationship.  43 is also a number of perfection.

The number 43 is related directly to the 3 of Cups in Tarot symbolism which represents a celebration and a happy occasion.  The number 3 is the number of growth, optimism and expression. Love is easily within reach with this number and the phrase I love you has 3 words.  The number 3 represents the culmination or completion of something.

The number 7 – The number 7 combines the unity of the number 1 and the perfection of the number 6. Furthermore, if you take the 1 and the 6 which stand by the side and creates the number 7 —  the 1 is the number of purpose and new beginnings; the number 6 is the number of harmony and represents dependability. The 6 like the 43 is also a number of perfection

The words I and Love both come to the number 9. The word “I”  is a straight 9 and “Love” is the number 18/9. The number 9 is a number of attainment and fulfillment. The 18 is the number that does represent caution and a warning to slow down – which merely means that caution is advised before committing to love before you know it’s “true love” and to understand that love will blossom on it’s own timetable.

The Expressive, Heart & Soul of Love The word Love is the expression of the number 9 which brings attainment and  fulfillment, but it also has a heart and soul number (derived from the vowels) which comes to the number 11.  This number reveals illumination, true mastery and a connection with others. The personality of Love is the number 7 (derived from the consonants) which further symbolizes the intuitive and introspective side of love.

The word You comes to a 16/7 – Here we see the number 7 again, however the number 16 is very magnetic and increases the love vibration of the 7 in this instance using the word you on its own merits.

I Love You has 8 letters – the number 8 sideways is the symbol of infinity. Those 3 little words make a very bold and powerful statement. The 8 reveals the courage it takes to love someone and the long-term goals of being and staying in love.

P.S. I love you!


Until next time, I want you to be inspired by your life! Are you ready to have your relationship reading done and know what’s in store for you and the love in your life?

Kathleen Lamoureux, Intuitive Life coach and Numerologist, is  the creator and founder of the  Numerology Zen Zone and the Wellness Zen  Zone which explores alternative therapies and self-help techniques such as meditation, affirmations, visualizations and numerology.  Kathleen helps individuals to find direction, true purpose, and to understand not only themselves, but their most intimate relationships. Kathleen reveals the meaning of numbers as they relate to all things metaphysical and gives private numerology readings and coaching sessions.


  1. I heard about this woman yesterday on the radio, who just wrote a book on relationships and I thought that what a great post this would make on the words “I Love You”. Then when I did the numbers, I immediately thought of you and Ruben just getting married. So in large part, your recent nuptials inspired me.

    Thank you Laura for consistently supporting me. You are a true friend.



  2. A very good reminder to us all about the power of our words. I also try to say “I love you” to me when I am looking in the mirror =)
    Thanks Kathleen and I love you too =)


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